"Everything happens for a reason", over and over again, those words tends to justify everything good, bad and neutral in our lives... Well, what if one day you awake from your deep slumber and realize, the world is just made up of one random fluke after another? Will the world suddenly stop spinning around its orbit and drop down? Will life as we know it come to an end over the shocking realization? my guess will be a NO....
So, why does it seem so necessary to justify every occurrence and action as part of a bigger picture, there are no cameras rolling or maybe it ran out of rolls somewhere along the way. In my space, i believe things are exactly like what they seem, they don't happen till someone makes them happen. Going about justifying peoples actions, words and deeds and tagging it as "things bound to happen because sometime in the far future it'll all tie up into a neat knot" just gets me going...
Every human life is perfectly vague, flawed and haphazard, not for a reason but because it is bound to be with so many distinct variables in it. I often wonder why we expect anything more than just that from it because in the quest of searching for a deeper meaning to every thing, the true significance gets lost in the horizon. Then comes the truly scary thought, What if there is no ultimate reason? What if there are no set rules or guidelines?, What if there is nothing significant differentiating me from the next person except the fact that we are both Confused on how to live? What if it ends in a split seconds and all you've achieved is nothing because there was nothing to strive for?
I can seat here and probably write a million lines on why things are not meant to be, why all events are coincidental, why each night should be spent going over the day and realizing each time you do, say or imply something could have easily set another series of coincidence in motion, but that'll just be my thoughts and believes and so far they work.
I guess its refreshing and easier to put all the burden on some unknown figure, Faith or destiny wherever she is will have a lot of burden to bear.. Just shuffling all the events we feel are out of our hands away, it'll be a sweet relief but acknowledging this also means you are powerless to stop whatever is in control of your chosen path, your destiny and that is inconceivable to my being.
I cant not be in control of my life, my actions and my thoughts..... accidents happens that gets you off track but that's all it is, coincidence that shouldn't take more than a passing thought. People cross our paths each day, we choose who stays in and who goes unnoticed, the same applies to everything. Your life is all about you, your choices and decisions, accidents should not be interpreted as more than they are.
